Today’s Solutions: February 08, 2023
“By acknowledging that so many of us are languishing, we can start giving voice to quiet despair and lighting a path out of the void.” – Adam Grant
BY Kristy Jansen and Summers McKay

This year, big, audacious, expansive resolutions seem a bit on the absurd side. Nearly the entire first week of this year’s podcast, The Optimist Daily Update was spent with our hosts and producers meekly committing to some form of self-improvement or another. As the first week of the New Year comes to an end and we find ourselves mid (northern hemisphere) winter, it seems like we all already need another break for our foggy brains.

It’s not that we don’t love our work at The Optimist Daily. It’s not that people don’t love what we do. In fact, we’ve had literally our most successful week ever, reaching almost a million people through our website alone. It’s that as much as there seems to be outside momentum, internally we are all kind of meh.

Chief Content Officer, Kristy Jansen reminded us that the most successful article from the New York Times in 2021 was actually about this very state of meh. In an article titled There’s a Name for the Blah You’re Feeling: It’s Called Languishing, writer Adam Grant captures the uncertainty, indifference, and in general what would make a difference in a seemingly endless pandemic.

In his powerful article about the psychological impacts of uncertainty and the post dread, pre resolution days, he shares the general experience of languishing:

“In psychology, we think about mental health on a spectrum from depression to flourishing. Flourishing is the peak of well-being: You have a strong sense of meaning, mastery, and mattering to others. Depression is the valley of ill-being: You feel despondent, drained and worthless.

Languishing is the neglected middle child of mental health. It’s the void between depression and flourishing — the absence of wellbeing. You don’t have symptoms of mental illness, but you’re not the picture of mental health either. You’re not functioning at full capacity. Languishing dulls your motivation, disrupts your ability to focus, and triples the odds that you’ll cut back on work. It appears to be more common than major depression — and in some ways, it may be a bigger risk factor for mental illness.”

Now, you know us at The Optimist Daily. We are all about the solutions opportunity for this ennui. We decided to dig back into our archives to find stories that can help us and maybe you move forward into the year ahead.

“Ennui” – a feeling of listlessness and dissatisfaction arising from a lack of occupation or excitement.

Here’s a solid round-up of our top 21 stories to read, share, and digest in order to go from languishing to thriving, and to not beat yourself up too much on the journey.

The best advice we can give you is to start with something small, read two or three of them, share a story with someone who might need it. Begin a conversation on what’s going right in your own world and what we have to look forward to ahead. Resolve only to take the next small step and then the next one when you are ready.

Reconnecting to your inner motivation

Finding ways to increase motivation is key to feeling more in control of your life. From finding joy to overcoming fatigue to generally getting stuff done, self-motivation is essential to our day-to-day life.

Getting in touch with your creative flow:

Creativity is an essential component of human development. Improving this ability can help you develop new ways of thinking or acting, enabling you to come up with new and original ideas in the process.

Reprioritizing your thriving self:

Making self-improvement a priority in your day-to-day life is essential to promoting mental wellbeing. Have a read at the articles below to find out how to set personal development goals and find the right strategies to achieve them.

Cultivating connection and joy:

Happiness may mean different things to different people but there are many simple strategies we can follow to help us cultivate more joy in our lives.

Print this article
More of Today's Solutions

Australia is the first nation to acknowledge psychedelics as medicine

Australia's Therapeutic Goods Administration surprised researchers by approving the psychedelic chemicals found in magic mushrooms and MDMA for use by patients with specific mental health issues, ...

Read More

The top 9 mistakes people make when trying to establish a healthy routine

If you can’t figure out why you struggle to maintain a healthy routine, no worries. We have a story from Groom+Style that lists the ...

Read More

These wind turbine walls let cities harness wind power beautifully

One of the major downfalls of harnessing wind energy is that large-scale wind farms require lots of space, away from urban areas, and wind ...

Read More

Google puts data privacy back into users hands

Due to various political and healthcare data breaches setting off alarm bells, the general public is slowly realizing that their data is at risk ...

Read More